MassageExchange.com Poll

Timing of Swap

How soon do you prefer to swap roles?
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
48%
2%
50%
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
2%
0%
3%
Another day, if I'm giving massage first
0%
0%
0%
Another day, regardless of who goes first
4%
0%
5%
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
41%
1%
42%
1117 Votes:
 
Member Comments
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I prefer to do both in the same day.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Cold do same day. Depends.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
All time depending but preferably same day
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I would prefer to do the exchange on the same day due to scheduling concerns. I would allow 3.5 hours for an exchange- 90, 30 rest, 90.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
It's up to partner, I am happy to just give a massage without receiving one in exchange
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
It depends on circumstances and time available . One may want to bail early or perhaps linger longer .
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
If there is sufficient time to make it worthwhile
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I prefer an exchange to back-to-back, same day.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I usually arrange for a day that we can swap on the same day.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
The best scenario, would be for us both to be nude, or wearing underwear and then take turns rubbing each other's bodies. If it is a therapeutic massage, I will gladly get massaged first, so that I can massage my partner while I am relaxed. If it is a sensual massage, I like to go first and set the tone of the session, I am fairly good at gauging acceptance of my touch and how far we both want to go.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Until now, I only receive so I try to go along with whatever the person massaging me would like of me, and enjoy all the time, and I have a bad back and neck
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I prefer to swap on same session. Prefer to allow between 2 to 3 hours for a completed exchange.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
They I can try out what they have shown me.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Whatever both parties agree to
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I'd prefer a couple hours between for recovery time
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
i prefer to give and receive on the same day, but usually just see what we are both up for at the time.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
When either partner is available & comfortable
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
A decision best left to mutually agree on. I would prefer to exchange same day to enhance the overall energy of each other.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I am willing to follow the lead of my partner.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depends - I have a fairly regular and we usually swap another day - Time get lost and we run out.. I believe it leads to a better Massage, especially if it becomes sensual/erotic
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I'm open for either same day or another day. It's more important to me that there is adequate time for a quality massage.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Enjoy it all the time. No matter who gets there first. As long as the ending justifies the neans
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Preferably the same day but I'm easy
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Don't really mind
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
At the end of the day it doesn't matter as long as both parties are able to enjoy the experience
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I prefer to trade on the same day, but that isn't necessary. If need be, I'll give the massage first and receive last.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Think only fair to all feel good
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
For me it is same day for sure ... I prefer to be second to receive most of the time as it makes the finish more intense.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Rock, Paper, Scissor!!!
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
just depends on time so we can manage
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
It depends on what both partners are wanting and needing at the time.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Dont mind who is first, just enjoy giving and taking.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
What ever. My partner say
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Prefer same day, but another day is fine also. Don't mind who is first.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Want both to share in the experience. If done correctly both will enjoy the session.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
It's so good to experience giving & recieving
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Sharing is caring.
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
If I'm not pressed for time, I prefer same session.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
There are various factors that come in to play here - time of day, day of week, distance, type of bodywork, condition of clients, etc. If the massage was a good one, the receiver is not likely to be up to par to return a good one right away.  My clients generally feel very relaxed and wish to take a nap or go to sleep.  On the other hand, a sensual massage may lead to different results. We can discuss this prior or at the time of massage.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Same day. I usually like to give the massage first so I don't have to worry about a sugar low and a decrease in energy. Thursdays and Saturdays are the days that work best for me. My strong point is relaxation massage but I can do deep tissue as well.
Another day, regardless of who goes first
To me I love Giving even more than receiving;so if my partner wants to be first and I end up waiting, that is perfectly fine!
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depends on the desire of both partners at that time
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Sometimes arranging a perfect exchange can be difficult, but as long as you can get something sorted out, there is scope to have alternate massage times.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I think massage exchange should be a shared experience - we rotate roles throughout.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
If close proximity, another day is fine, but would probably prefer same if long distance.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Sharing is always nice.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I've gotten screwed before so..I learned to do them on the same day.
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
I can't experience the true benefits of massage if I have to get up and WORK on someone else right away. Especially if it's deep tissue work.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
enjoy giving and receiving
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
its our preference and availability, i'm flexible in timing
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Hell I receive only but would be willing to give if new how or somebody would teach me.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
if I am online I'm willing to give and receive right then
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
To suit a partner
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I'm flexible any time any pleac
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
The way I heard this explained by a body electric Cordinator once, was that massage is an exchange of energy and if both parties don't contribute , it's out of balance. Since sensual massage cannot be done for money The only exchange that works it's another sensual massage.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I am open to anything my partner needs!!!
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Right away - everyone has to be happy
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Enjoy giving and receiving
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I only care that you feel great after the massage i give u .I really love giving them
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
If we have time to both enjoy a massage on the same day, that would be great. If not, we can swap another day.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I enjoy giving comfort.....x
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
pretty flexible
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Better to trade the same day so the other person doesn't feel bad if they aren't able to reciprocate soon.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I am flexible with time usually
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
It depends more on my schedule and that of my partner.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I'm usually available most of the day.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I prefer same day, but it is not always possible.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
This just feels right. I want both of us to feel the pleasure of a mutual massage.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
If my friend is totally zoned out after receiving a massage, it's no problem to wait a while before I am on the receiving end.
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
If there is plenty of time  to share    then  both at the same timeIf there is a connection  and  there will be future  massages  then on a different day...Whatever gives  pleasure to both    ..
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I am easy going and have found sometimes anticipation plays a big role in the level of appreciation.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
She'll feel at ease to let me take control next time
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Generally prefer the same day, can often be difficult to organise another exchange
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I am usually available from 7 pm
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
But if the guy is blissed out and super relaxed I don't have the heart to get him up to work on me. I just let him doze.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Depending on distance to travel, I may agree to different days, but prefer same day.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I am flexible and want to make sure we both have a good experience.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
works best for me at least until a trust is built up.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
It would be great to get a dependable buddy though so we could give & get on different days!
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I'm wide open.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
should be the same day if both are willing
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
The way schedules are today... one appointment and done (until the next go-around) works best for me.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Depends what's preferred by my massage partner. But, travel could be an issue.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I prefer morning (early). Like before 11am to be finished. But as time progresses I'll probably work towards other times. Regardless, no evenings or nights, but it doesn't hurt to ask
Another day, regardless of who goes first
I normally need to schedule time for a massage.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
If that is convenient.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I am happy when someone communicate with a definite answer. Sometimes people unfortunately time wast
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Whatever is suitable, and convenient
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Same day would be preferable, however I am always willing to work around the desires of my massage partner.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
This way we both can enjoy a great massage.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
That way I could learn
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I'm all for the easy approach and I don't have any desire to put the other person off.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
it is probably easier to give the massage first but if you have a rest & you pick up some tips from your massage buddy it isn't hard to give a massage after receiving one
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
It's difficult enough, with people's busy schedules, to arrange an exchange date that works for both. I've never tried to make the role swap on a different day.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
always receive in open hand
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I have to fit the swaps in around my regular locanto clients which I trust you will appreciate. Also please let me know if you are allergic to lemon grass massage oil as I use a lot of this oil which feels great.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Whatever satisfies both of us.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Time of day can be worked out as well as the day.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
open to same day. Different days. Short or long sessions. Massaging back and forth.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
We can always make it work out for bliss.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Same day to help me learn
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
i preferdaytime on weekdays
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I love to give massages and take my time, and rub every part and than see if there is time for me I am all about the lady
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
The sooner the better but flexibility is usually the key
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
want it to be relaxing for both'and to enjoy each other
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I don't mind at all. I have given massages for 2-3 hours before as well as received one the same day. I am high energy and looking forward to getting back into a good schedule. So not a problem.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
go with the flow
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
It's a matter of both being comfortable with each other.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
depends on other person if they have time I,m felxible
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I can usually be flexible daytime on weekdays.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I find it enjoyable giving and receiving on the same day. Saves extra travel.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I like giving long massages approx. 2 hours so if time permits and partner willing why not but depends on the other partners point of view.
Another day, regardless of who goes first
As my massage can take 2 hours en doing two in the same available time is difficult with travel on top. I love to give the first massage and then meet again for a return if it suits both.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
depends on time available for both parties otherwise a return another day is ok but depends on distance I guess
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
only fair then
Another day, regardless of who goes first
Depends on mutual schedule Like to have a conversation or meet firstv
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Both the giving and receiving experiences are wonderful, so I have no preference. If my partner has a preference, I defer to him. The length of time we have together is often the limiting factor..because I do not want to feel rushed in any way
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
That's why it's best to sit down and chat about it first... then everyone is happy :-)
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Whatever my massage partner prefers. I do not rush and enjoy taking my time :)
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I prefer to travel and would let the host pick. If I give 1st massage I give the best I can and if I get a good one in return I'm more than happy giving a quick 2nd massage refresh. And I'm all for flipping a coin.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depending on availability of time I like to take my time and not rush
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
Also depends on the distance I have to travel
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I prefer to swap another day. Make each exchange about one of us. I prefer to give first. If my partner wants an exchange the same day then we could work it out.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I prefer giving first, then taking,,on the same day
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I'm flexible and would be happy to discuss what might be best for the both of us
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depend on the time we having and distance to travel
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
You just have to go with the flow
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
i am willing to defer to my massage partners preference.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I am open
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Always better to give than receive but both is nice
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Preferably the same day.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
It really depends on how much time we have.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
As long as my partner doesn't live too far away, I'm flexible.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Depends on the distance. Usually I feel a bit spacy if I have a massage so prefer to have it later.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
As soon as possible is good
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Each session is different and up to the people participating at that time. So it may be important to wait others may not care.
Another day, if I'm giving massage first
I am able to wait until it fits my schedule
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
What ever works out time wise.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depends on how much time both partners have on any one day. Good to do a full exchange if there's plenty time, but good to do one at a time if that's what time allows - especially if the two people concerned are happy and comfortable with each other and know they will be looking to maintain contact over a period of time.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
There is no way to answer this without knowing the partner and any connection between the two. I might be in the mood to give and not care if I receive at all or I may want to give first and then receive. Same goes for the partner. Whatever the two of us decide on is how it will be. It could change half way through and the partner receiving decides to give. It's a question that can only be answered in the moment. But for the most part i do enjoy giving stress relief and pleasure a lot.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Like to set aside a long period of time for the exchange - between 2 and 4 hrs.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Hm, can this really be answered accurately? We all have preferences but for us the situation, environment, and needs of partners learned organically through conversation and perhaps even body language outweigh personal desires. We enjoy the stress relief, relaxation, and conversation, and because of the pressures of life and its expected or unexpected events, and responsibilities, decreasing that mounted pressure is of utmost importance; as such, approaching a session we strive to keep this in mind as we schedule a time whereupon all partners will truly enjoy a/nother monumental massage experience, whether each partner receives 20 minutes or 2 hours of attention, swapping roles on the same day session is our preference, nevertheless. Females Only! Send Email if Interested! Thank You!
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Currently I am only offering giving not receiving so the question doesn't arise.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Taking turns, give & take, with reciprocal feedback seems like a good approach.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Some people need longer to recover, so I'm happy just seeing how the other person feels after. My main issue is just my lower back. So I'm always happy to swap after, if I am to get a massage 1st
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
depends on day
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
It's nice to give as well as receive a massage, therefore I feel it's fair to do both on the same day.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Whatever works out for the schedules of both. Sometimes it is difficult to coordinate times that allow full exchanges.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
i think I'd play it by ear
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Like to both be massaged in same day
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Usually the same day, but once we've had our first swap, I don't mind just giving our receiving, and scheduling the reciprocation for another day.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Mutual decision making so both are happy is essential.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
always happy to give or recieve a full body massage.if my partener doesnt feel up to giving a massage right then its not the end of the world.Still give a good one and wait for my turn.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Have a sturdy portable couch & can visit.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
This mainly depends on time limits and my partners situation
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Partners are few and far between here in rural new england so travel time dictates we share same day. Sometimes we swap during massage my back your back my front your front :-) I do not often desire a complete ending so I like my partner to be the one enjoying the final strokes.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Massages help to relax the body,tension,mind, From hard day,Like for my partner to be massage first on same day,
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Busy schedules often make swapping another day difficult.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Yea for me too, no preference, following schedules of each others.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Whatever, same day should be fine
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
whatever is convenient for my partner
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
i am when ever the ladies would like to meet , thanks Howard x
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I use to be a lumberjack and worked very hard all week so I scheduled my massage for the last visit on Friday. My masseuse was an angel and took as long as necessary to work out the soreness. I moved 1300 miles away, jeez I miss that lady. Dale
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
friday is the best ;)
Another day, regardless of who goes first
I can feel either drained or spacey after getting a massage. Different days work better for me.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
No real preference but hopefully I leave my partner too relaxed to give a truly great massage for some time.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
same day no problems why wait
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Massage gets the endorphins flowing - nice to share that feeling rather than delaying it. Needs to be something we both agree upon.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
No specific preference, whatever is convenient for both on time availability. However, same days are best if time permit, instead of waiting weeks or days for the next exchange.
Another day, regardless of who goes first
Maybe you like to swap the same day, you just want to feel the touch. But then it's so hard to arrange, but isn't instant gratification the best.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Easy going so don't mind
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Very open to whatever
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
Today
Another day, regardless of who goes first
In my opinion, if both massage partners have done their job well and they swapped roles within minutes, the last one to receive walks away with a tiny bit of an advantage. Meet a couple of days later and reverse roles. Then after a couple of weeks or so, do the same. If you are both dedicated and lucky, this win/win partnership will continue throughout your entire membership.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
We can change who goes first on our second meeting!
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I love to exchange massages as often as I can
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Who doesn't feel particularly generous after receiving a good massage...after a brief reflection over an adult beverage :)
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I enjoy ensuring that my partner receives a complete massage.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Really doesn't matter
Another day, regardless of who goes first
Whenever each of us can arrange to meet
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I do however, like to receive a swap at the same session, however, it is mostly later
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I always prefer the same day. It is hard enough to find a good time to swap!
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Prefer same day with a few hours notice. Open to men and women.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Just go with the flow :)
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depends on the situation, who is more skilled, and who needs the massage the most.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
What ever would please my partner.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Prefere the same day
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Within a day or two would be perfect. Otherwise flexible for a few days
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I always try to schedule enough time so the sessions can be the same day; back-to-back. We do a four handed session, so our exchanges always take a bit of time for 3 people to give / receive and not be rushed.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I am pretty open depending on time. Back to back is my favorite.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Always prefer same day so both can enjoy the massage .
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
It really depends on the people involved !!
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
it's all good
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
only receive so I try to go along with whatever the person massaging me would like of me at the time
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
That's right in an exchange of experience.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
I prefer to be massaged asap as I have a bad back and neck
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Always prefere same day
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
As long as there's enough time .
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
Depending on time of the day we can arrange. May have to make next day not much of the day left.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Depends on situation
Another day, regardless of who goes first
Sunday afternoons are great because you can take your time and just enjoy a "lazy" Sunday. Great way to relax, talk and enjoy the experience of touch with another person.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
As soon as possible. I don't like waiting for hours or days and I don't like to do that to anyone else.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
only into receiving.
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
whenever ,every new partner is different
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
As long as there is no rush, same day is always best! Always allot plenty of time so there's no hurry or clock watching.
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
I prefer everything done on the same day. Allotted time should be at least four hours so that there is no rush.
Another day, regardless of who goes first
Tomorrow or next day would be great
Same day, whether I'm giving or receiving first
depends on the day but usually same day
No preference; whatever's preferred by my massage partner
Just depends on time availability and calendar.
Another day, if I'm receiving massage first
It all depends how much time there is for us to spend together. If we can have 30min of down time between sessions, that would be ideal to swap roles
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