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bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
Enjoyed a good 3-hour massage swap with Benjiboy. He certainly knows his stuff. Before the massage he put me at my ease with a nice chat over tea and biscuits and then we proceeded to his 'getting to know you better' ten-minute introduction which was a surprise but a very delightful one. As he is the more experienced practitioner I enjoyed the first massage and then we alternated for different parts of the body, taking it in turns to be the masseur. Benjiboy is very accomplished and has a variety of sensitive and subtle strokes and I soon realised I was in the hands of someone who knew what he was doing. Very reassuring. I was a bit worried I would not be 'up to scratch' and tried to remember some of the strokes Benjiboy had employed but he was a hard act to follow.
But I muddled through and we had a very good time. He comes highly recommended. A very professional approach.
Reviewed by tacheman 2016-11-14 10:52 [15196/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
I met with Benjiboy yesterday and had a wonderful experience in his well prepared Massage room at his home. Everything was just perfect, from the welcome I received, to the massage and the shower afterwards. He is a true professional and after preparing the massage oils, Benjiboy delivered a massage that shows his commitment to making his guest feel special. I will want to repeat the experience again and again....A lovely man who I strongly recommend to anyone who enjoys the true art of m2m Massage.....I can only give Benjiboy 5 stars, but given the opportunity he would receive 10 stars.
Reviewed by Chopper777 2016-11-12 00:45 [15171/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
I recently had an exchange with John. He is very friendly and welcoming and is a great host. We were well suited in our approach and preferences for massage. Great to have a choice of essential oils in the mix. I learnt a lot from his technique and approach, and benefited from his knowledge. Also very sensual and caring. Looking forward to a future opportunity. Thanks John!
Reviewed by arthur2012 2016-11-10 14:32 [15156/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
bengiboy had recently given me a sublime Swedish massage session. It was perfect in every way: un-rushed, pleasant, professional yet friendly, attentive and much more.
I will be back for more :)

...PS,
bengiboy evidently was passionate working on me, seems the pleasure was mutual.

Update: We have since repeated the sessions on occasions and the level of mutual satisfaction is being at least sustained if not increased. Highly recommended.
Reviewed by palp 2016-11-08 00:56 [12815/P]

Reply from bengiboy of 2015-11-07
palp you where wonderful to massage. Great muscles to engage with and pleasant personality. Hope to see you again.

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
benjiboy and I had arranged to exchange quite a long time ago and today was the appointed day. I hate the M25 at rush hour but donned the breastplate of righteousness (well, I got in the car anyway) and braced the traffic rather early this morning to make it by the time we had agreed.

I must admit (and I did so to benjiboy) that his wealth of experience was a bit daunting to me as someone who has learned through watching and having massage from only a handful of other people, but the relaxed way he greeted me at the door of his lovely home and ushered me in put me completely at ease stright away. He offered me a drink after my long drive and I gratefully accepted. We took the coffees up to his massage room where the table and oils were all nicelt laid out ready.

benjiboy likes to use a 'connecting phase' before the massage which I'd not come across before, but he took the trouble to explain what it was and asked if I was comfortable with it before we did it - he would have been happy to go straight into the massage if that was what I wanted. I wanted to experience the connecting phase even though I already felt we had made a very good connection during the greeting and conversation whilst we drank our coffee. I was glad I did - it was exquisite. I don't think I'll spoli the surprise by explaining it here in detail.

The it was on with the massage. Wow - I was in heaven very quickly. A mixture of very firm, firm and very light touches for this expert really did it for me. I wanted it to go on for hours and hours. benjiboy then kindly let me massage him. We have only done the back so far on the course so I concentrated on this. I really enjoyed working on his back and benjiboy was kind enought to say he liked it so hopefully I have a future at this :)

benjiboy continued to be the perfect host after the massage by letting me have a shower and then, because I'd had quite a long journey, even offered me lunch. Thank you benjiboy for a wonderful morning. I hope we can do it again before long xx
Reviewed by Duffield 2016-10-18 07:07 [14991/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
I met bengiboy today, after a couple of postponed dates (the usual complications of life). Well worth the wait. bengiboy is very knowledgeable about massage, scents, body and mind, all reflected in his skill, the result of 12 years of practice and natural intuition. His technique runs the gamut from light and sensual to judicious use of strength. It's a cliche to say the time flew away, but cliches are true, that was my feeling after a most satisfying massage. And talking to bengiboy is a pleasure too. Highly recommended.

Reviewed by bill4646 2016-09-06 12:03 [14680/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
I had a fantastic exchange with bengiboy yesterday. He exudes warmth and kindness and put me at ease immediately. I felt that we had achieved a connection even before the massage started. The massage he provided was long and slow with a variety of techniques being employed. I am not skilled or experienced enough to define them all but there was a combination of therapeutic and sensual elements and it all worked together seamlessly. He was also a pleasure to massage even though after his skills I felt a little inadequate.
It was perfect Sunday afternoon and I left feeling really relaxed. The residual effects have significantly improved my Monday and my normal back tension has not returned yet.
I'm really hoping for the opportunity to have another exchange with bengiboy
Reviewed by sputnik 2016-09-05 11:19 [14668/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
Met with bengiboy (John) for my first exchange, i was very nervous meeting a stranger for the first time and knowing that i will be taking all my clothes off . John made me feel very welcome and explained what will happen and soon made me feel very relaxed. I have had massages in hotels on holiday before but they were nothing to what i experienced for the 2 hours in the hands of bengiboy. i do not think i could of started with a more genuine and helpful guy.Thank YOU Benjiboy (John)
Reviewed by fured 2016-09-05 05:48 [14663/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
I heard about bengiboy from a good friend of mine, who recommended that I try to contact him. I met him yesterday, when he agreed to host me for an afternoon exchange. All I can say is Wow! What an experience! I have never, honestly, had such a thorough therapeutic and sensual massage, combined, ever. This guy is something else. We started with a brief chat about ourselves and then he suggested a connecting session where we got to know our bodies and let the inhibitions either surface or melt away. After that, he massaged me with sure, strong strokes and knew exactly what he was doing and intended to do. Then it was my turn, and I hope he enjoyed my endeavours. When we had finished the session, he offered me a shower and cup of tea before I left on my homeward journey. He is a very gifted, caring individual and I sincerely hope that we meet again.
Reviewed by Hantsguys1 2016-09-02 03:05 [14624/P]

bengiboy Highly Recommended
Crawley, England, United Kingdom
I arranged with John to exchange a massage swap, upon arrival John instantly made me feel relaxed and welcome. John has some fantastic techniques and great ability to make you feel totally relaxed.
He had a wonderful selection of oils etc.
As this session was one of my first, i can not thank John enough for his understanding and embracing approach. I can not recommend John highly enough.
Thank you !!
Reviewed by Lavalux 2016-08-29 08:53 [14600/P]


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