Miles away, no message, just want photos? Ignore, delete, block

If their profile is mostly complete, with well thought out responses, then I’ll ask for a pic first, that’s only fair. If they still refuse, I then usually ignore.

If someone is sending me their photos I would generally send mine unless they are so far away that it would not be possible to set up an exchange. If they do not have photos and not willing to send them I would not send mine.

If someone has no photos and isn’t willing to add them, they aren’t serious about setting up a massage.

I’m not bashful but if someone is not willing to see what they look like, they shouldn’t ask to see more pictures

It depends on the other information they provide.

I figure they are just ogling pics especially if they are not local

If the person is from a different country or a long way away and hasn't even bothered to explain why they want the photo then I ignore it. if its local and a possible match I will ask for theirs first.

95% of the men who ask for photo pass upfront have not even introduced themselves or bothered to read about my preferences. I ignore and block those. The others generally get my photo pass.

I dont respond to people, especially those who live thousands of miles away who want to see my photos, without them first sending me a photopass first.
Now days, with out phone cameras, you can take your own photos in the privacy of your home.

I will be happy to share my private photos only after getting a photopass for private photos. I prefer to see nude photos before sending photopass for my photos.

Ask for a photo, have a photo to share.

I don’t mind sharing what I have. Especially if they want to meet.

Its very rude and creepy!!
Its prob a cheapskate free member too. Iignore or send them a request for a facepic.

If anyone says they would like to look, I'm always happy to allow them.

Depends. Likely to send it if I like the totality of their profile.

We have a photo on our main page and several other photos. We would prefer that people have a photo posted but can understand why someone might not. So we would ask them for a photo pass.

If they ask I will send one I don't have to see them

Just have a chat and ask to share a Pic - no drama

If I get a request I presume they have become a member of the Exchange.

I think it would be impolite and unrealistic to seek access to another's photo if the person asking did not have a photo to exchange.

I don't share any personal photos of any sort on any internet site. Period.

I'd send mine and at the same time ask for theres in return

Willing to share photo's with people that have a photo. But will no send photo with out one back.

if they don't follow instruction rule. tell them bye

Most if not all are just collecting nude photos, for what purposes I cringe to think. Can’t think of a reason to interact with such people.

U get my pic
Cuz I want your pic

I prefer not to exchange photos but to meet in person and to view credentials. There is a lot that can go wrong on social media with individuals that may have insincere motives or very bad intentions, and having your photo in the wrong person's hands is like playing with dynamite. For my own personal safety and security, I would rather meet in person to discuss the terms of a massage exchange and avoid exchanging photos altogether on this site.  It also adds a sense of mystery and intrigue.  It might mean that I get less hits or potential partners, but it will ensure I connect with the right people. As the saying goes, "Caution is the better part of valour."

Always ask for photo. There is no valid excuse for not having one, even in private. What are they trying to hide?

I have better exchanges with open people.

In my experience photos are misleading and a personal security risk. I never use or ask for a photo but I do ask to meet at a neutral place and exchange real ID such as driving licence. That way both know and have real assuarnce the person is genuine ... better be safe not sorry and be more at ease, happy and sure

I don't have any photos other then my profile sorry Im new at this if you have any hints of what kind of photos work please send me some ideas...I love being touched all over.

i send, or open my pictures when I contact them ...I think it’s the right thing to do

We can talk and have an agreement.

I would send a photo

If serious about exchange then should post a picture, photo pass if desired, you need approval to see photo pass. I like to see picture of who and the skin health, physical I may massage. Ciao. : )

Here’s an idea. If you want to exchange with people on the site, have them in your home, and allow them into your personal physical space, post a face pic in the first place. Let us see how you look and be honest about your age. We all like different things and that is ok. If you have something to hide, don’t sigh up for a memebership because the games are quite elementary.

Its important to see a photo if your serious

I prefer not to have a photo to the general public

Carl 91st shell division veteran brethren.. I cannot upload a photo on this scrappy outdated phone I'm sorry

What do expect from a sensual message

It is rude and inconsiderate of someone to ask for photo pass if they are not willing to provide one. Very annoying...

Great information to know

They're asking for a favor, they should show good faith first by showing their picture(s).

I would send a photo

If your serious about meeting then they are going to see you anyway so why wouldn't you send your pictures ?

Since my wife and I are a couple, we receive many messages from single men. She doesn't feel comfortable sending photos. At the same time, we are much more likely to respond to a single male who provides a pic.

I am happy to share photos of any type, I just prefer not to have one posted for the general public

I am decent looking and 5'5", 140 pound weight, Not heavy. Average or fit. I just don't feel comfortable sending photos. Prefer meeting in a place the other considers safe. Depends on the conversation. I will be happy to send photo once we connect.

Should have an alternative that says, 'No pictures.' Private pictures are much more telling.

I send them a photo pass and request photo(s) from them.

I have nothing to hide

If they think it is not wise to post a photo , why would they expect photo pass from others.?

lets be honest i have no problem  sending my photo  to a lady. and i can see the women's preference not have a photo up. women are buetiful. and men have 2 brains that we must control for women to feel safe

They collect pictures but more than likely fakes. Male or females faking themselves for info.

Seems strange to ask someone for their pictures but not allow access to yours!

Ask them to send a message of introduction and why they want to exchange with me!

I am decent looking and 5'11, 200. Not heavy. Average. I just don't feel comfortable sending photos. Prefer meeting in a place the other considers safe. Depends on the conversation.

Does not have to be professional photo.

its 2019, every phone has a camera, if its too risky for you to have a photo you can share you prob shouldnt bee looking online

Reply with a photo pass because I'm hopeful that the request wasn't idle.

I think it's okay if it is a match, then it will move forward naturally

Something as generic as a drivers license type photo is better than no photo and should not be too much to ask.  If you want or need a little cover, use a scarf.  One layer or more. A scarf can add a little suspense, excitement  and allure to the experience.

The women say that if you ask for a photo you are looking for more than a massage.

I appreciate people may not want a photo for general display this is a massage site not a dating site. But if I am going to communicate or exchange then of course I will provide a photo pass. I don’t understand when people send a message to someone with no photo but their profile says they prefer a photo as you can’t respond anyway. What is the point?

Depends on whether I am interested enough in their profile to continue the conversation.

I do't have public photo for professional discretion. But am very happy to share with those I am likely to exchange with. That means if someone is too far away, I will not likely to share. If they are not willing to share, it is a red flag. There are photo collectors out there.

I think it's not nice to simply request a photo pass without even saying hi and top of that they dont have any photo of themselves on the profile I will ask them to add a photo of theirs first before requesting mine!

its a give and take pleasure so lets enjoy each other

Why is it that those who are asking for a photo pass never have any photos or have pictures from years ago?
Some profiles needs a serious update, or maybe verified that the info is upto date!

Don’t waste time with those guys! I ignore every one of those requests.

I will ask them for photos, but if there is no response, ignoring them will be the best choice

I have several representative photos posted myself. I find it a little strange and unnecessarily coy to be on this site with no photo at all. I like to be able to tell that people are not so heavy or so overly developed that I wont be able to provide a good massage.

Why is it that those who are asking for a photo pass never have any photos and are many miles away?
This site needs a serious update,
So out dated!

I don't particularly see the need for a photo. Try exchanging a few messages, then, if you decide to meet for a swap see how you both get on. If it wasn't good, don't do it again...

I typically will send a reply simply stating that I don't send photo passes to those with whom I have had no prior contact, or am unlikely to ever exchange massages (due to distant locations, etc).
I have received numerous notes of understanding and thanks for my reply.

I do can share my photos.

Reply back, but also ask whether they would share, and if not, why not?

I am willing share my photo if you share yours first. Thanks.

i would send them a photo if I am interested in massage exchange

Most of the time those that are requesting photos are hoping to see naked photos of you and not willing up front to share... so why put the energy into it.

Common courtesy. If one wants a photo, they can should send a photo along with the request. It is a massage. Appearance is no indication of quality of one's handiwork.

If they don't have one, I gently point out the unfairness of them requesting something of me that they aren't willing to provide themselves. Probably a waste of time, but no one ever puts one up and then contacts me later.

even exchange

We can communicate to feel comfortable about the get together

Openness and transparency in first contacts is vital for further good communication, if they’re not happy to send a photo pass or add a photo, then I would Ignore.

What is a photo pass?

don't mind sending photo

Ask them for a photo, I like to know who I'm talking with.
Edit

I expect my privacy to be respected, just as I respect the privacy of others. Since the only body parts that is essential are soft hands, I can deal with no photos. Likewise, I understand that NO ONE is going to contact me because of how I look! :)

Probably ignore it, depending on the person and the situation. More likely to ignore if the person clicked sensual massage only. If we were talking about an exchange then ok.

beauty to me is in the heart and its a massage not lovers so dont matter my 1st time if anyone wants practice on me

I am easy with anything

I'm not too shy; so if somebody wants to see, I'm not generally inclined to decline.

An issue of basic decency. Hint hint

Please send a photo if you do not have one

They initiated the exchange. They should provide a picture so you can decide how to proceed:
Share photo pass, talk, ignore, other.

I don't really agree with any of these options. Some of us are private and are only looking for an idea of the body size of a member. There are many pictures of actually attractive people already on the internet. I find it absurd people are looking here to collect pictures.

I don't have any private photos, but I don't see much point in dealing with anyone who's unwilling to share a photo first. I understand the need to protect one's privacy, especially in a small town, but at least send me a photo pass before proposing an exchange.

I'm not really fussed to be honest....doesn't really matter what someone may look like...everyone is beautiful in there own way!

I'm not here to show my physical attributes, but to share my talent.

I’m an exhibitionist in addition to having a passion for touch. *shrug*

I do not send photo for security reasons unless i talk with the person threw text email and then i will send

It's fair to show their pic and /or send a photo pass first otherwise it may probably not for a genuine massage exchange request

Trust. Truthful. Saves time.

Let’s talk

I figure if you are going to ask for a photo pass you should send your pass with the request. If they have no pictures and a completed profile I will ask that they post a picture first. If they have a minimal profile and no pictures I usually just ignore the request.

I send a photo pass as Im a bit easy especially with guys from ages 55 to 90. I get turned on that there turned on by me

Pic for pic

I don’t have any hidden pics, what is the point? I want guys to see me and if they like what they see, terrific!! If they do not, oh well...

Seems that this happens a lot from people 1000s of miles from the requested person that will never be a meet up for massage

Depends on their profile and how its written. Of course that has never happened haha

Seems pointless. I'm always wary of picture collectors.

I sometimes block them.

I always reply to a picture request of their original message/request also has the photo pass attached. Otherwise, I assume they are really not serious.

Just for felling safty

I don't need to send my private (non nude) photos to any random person just because they're asking for access to them.

It’s only fair.

I might send a pass to somebody wit only profile photo, after we’ve exchanged mail and seem on the path to a possible exchange. But if the other person has no photo at all, no way. That’s a preview of how anything you set up will go.

this is an exchange not a photo gallery