Looking mature local

Not an easy subject I guess accommodation is an issue as usual

As one member, 400 miles from me, commented, he had a better chance exchanging with me than the guy down the block. Many members just do not respond to my e-mails as I often hear the same from other members. Some members send me e-mails that end up just wanting porn pictures or they just want to connect on face time, etc, to have an encounter. Exchanging locally or on the road are equally challenging. Just keep trying.

very little success in connecting at all. A lot of rude members

only one time as person was able to host; generally, have not found any exchanges will traveling as not everyone can host.

I haven't tried, but I suspect most of my exchanges will qualify as "traveling" based on the amount of inactivity that I see locally.

Whatever energy you exude, you receive back

When moving house I was in a different area from home and did have a couple of meetings with excelent results as one choose to be a regular and has been for nearly a year. You don't know until you try!

I've made some connections, it just some guys are too much trouble to coordinate or won't respond but others I've had success that on follow up visits to those cities I've been able to exchange again.

Traveling or otherwise, not any interest at all .

I'm new to the site, but I was recently staying out of town for a week and reached out to a few folks that were local and made a connection. I had a very good experience - a very nice individual came by and we had a great exchange. It sounded too good to be true, but it worked. Another one of the individuals I contacted was headed out of town the day after I contacted him - otherwise, we would've met up too.

Would like more people if into massage

Difficult to coordinate times.

Open to any opportunity

But then again, I have not traveled much for some years.

Good idea...

Difficult to even get a response!

Tried in Hawaii no response

I'm very happy with my first Mexican exchange partner but it's a two hour drive between us. Not exactly ideal. Maybe a travel link would be useful. Could be in the forum? You're doing a great job in here. Thanks.

Drove 4.5 hrs and linked up with someone when I was doing business in that town.

Would like more exchanges

Very disappointed :(

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You've only e-mailed 4 members in the past 6 months (!) so I can understand your lack of connecting. Read 'Tips for Success' (gold colored button) on your home page.

I’m not a paid member so it makes hard to respond to any emails. So no success and pretty much a waste of time using this site. Very disappointed :(

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You've e-mailed zero (!) members in the past 12 months so I can understand your lack of connecting. Read 'Tips for Success' (gold colored button) on your home page

Had a couple excellent exchanges while traveling.

I haven't connected with any other people, I don't travel much

This helps a lot. Love the service. Mike

I find hotel bars a great place to offer my services and more

Have done a sucessful meet and greet. Have not been involved in anexchange yet.

could be very useful more so to visters in unknown surroundings

Very rare to get any response from anyone. I would think a polite decline would be expected rather than people just not answering at all…

Success in the U.S. but limited success in Latin America

I've tried contacting prospective clients without success. Maybe they think I am too old. But my Chinese training is ageless. I would love to share my gift of giving a good massage.

No travel during this pandemic.

Many potential exchange inquires do not respond when the prospects of planning become more serious. I travel extensively, and would like serious exchange conversations and planning.   After all of that, of course, a real massage exchange would be rewarding regardless of the quality of the massage itself  !

I'm the one offering massages. There are always people in need.

Most act like massage is some big secret and they cant let there wife or partner find out.when they cant host means there hiding something so I dont trust them

Time consuming to organise , and hasn't always aligned to result in a swap. Some great swaps though and worth persisting with.

Have enjoyed several massages while traveling although it can be a bit time consuming to setup.

I had some success travelling to other Australian cities, that was pre-covid. Reciprocal always.

I'd be willing to try it. Could be fun!

Met a very nice soul a freind for ever a shoulder a touchy lusty feel want need type like me honest and caring lady

it hard to find someone good. older men tend to know but are not very strong. younger men don't know much but are very strong...

So far nothing worked for me

willing to try, later.

not travelling at this point, locals bring it on i have some free time!

Nothing worked for me till date

Nothing worked for me as yet

i dont really have time nor money to travel very far

I personally met only one person and got stood up by another, both just recently and the one person I did meet really enjoyed her massage though

Very few seem interested if travelling. They seem sceptical of you.

I always have a hotel room. Seems most like the anonymity of that.

My gift of massage comes from the Lord . I am a Christian but believe massage is essential to our well being . Mutual massage is a great way to share my gift I have oil warmers facial massage tools use coconut oil and warm massage cream I have my own table you can come to my place

I would be interested in trading massages with you. Maybe when you are in my area, hope we could do that.

Exchange in Hawaii didn't turn up. Forgot?? Exchanges in other cities of New Zealand were very successful

I have started to find some success!

Varies by the area and how many subscribers there are in the vicinity.

If I have ample lead time I have had great success, it is when I have a short lead time and little time in the place I am visiting that I have not has success. It has been wonderful to be visiting somewhere and get to enjoy others through massage sessions.

Exchanged info and both seemed interested but were not able to actually meet

I found that being in the same location for an extended amount of time makes it better. but with the covid pandemic I haven't even tried .

Almost impossible to set up any kind of meeting that is mutually agreeable.

Most people are so overly-cautious anyway it's hard enough to make a local connection, even though they **joined a site to exchange massages**, much less with someone traveling, so I can't imagine it would be easy.

Tried 4 different times with no luck

Have had success, the trick is give plenty of notice and be able to host. On a recent trip I had 6 responses ( pretty good!) but only ended up with one massage cause I couldn't host. ' Can't host' is a major obstacle when travelling apparently.

Helps if you get silver or gold membership while traveling.

How do you ask for such without sounding like a weirdo?

No success here

Unfortunately successful while traveling.

I have had success 7/10 times. Talking on the phone and discussing expectations helps, prior to travel.

Have enjoyed giving while traveling and met some amazing folks!

I don't travel much with covid.

Not so much now as dont travel as much as i did but yes it worked with planning

I have not even been successful in local let alone traveling

Be nice to connect while I take mini breaks

It’s harder but with proper planning it can be done.

I found that I have to set up the rub before I traveled. Exchange names, and numbers is best. Yes I realize that there could be potential issues exchanging info, but you just need to go with how comfortble you are with things.  This also works better, because yes there are alot of people, but check out their login in counter. Alot of folks don't  checkin regularly. Everybody I have had at my hotel rooms for massage has been good, as we were very comfortabke with mutal nudity, again set up before meeting. Having the massage in my hotel room really helps.

After months of trying got very few responses to my emails. One requested a massage for that night which happened to be the only night I went for a nice dinner by myself so did not get the message until the next morning and it was too late.

I have had a couple trades, but usually when I travel. I can't host regularly at home.. Philly area has lots of paid therapists, but I can't always afford one.

When I used to travel I was somewhat successful, depending on where I stayed, etc. I've not traveled much in over two years thanks to COVID so . . .

I am a 25+ year "Road Warrior" and have traveled to every state except Alaska. Retired now but travel from Pa to NM every year with overnights in 4-4 major cities, like OKC, going out & back.So I have no problem driving 200+ or so miles, for a friendly Massage Exchange or a give only one for a Female, :)

I have had no sucess traveling or at home. I am willing to travel 30-35 miles. I have replied to posts once in a while I get a no thank you reply most ignore me. I did get a yes reply but he was a no show. I will keep on trying

Definitely easier for me to connect with a massage partner when traveling as I cannot host at home.

When travelling I generally can provide accommodation which solves the all-too-common "neither can host" problem when at home.

Often it is easier to arrange an exchange when travelling because I have my massage table with me in the car and we use my hotel - hosting can be the tricky bit to arrange.

It takes some coordination and many fall through but some happened and they were wonderful

No massage is a bad one all good.

Lack of courtesy replies

I tried no success not even local ones in Massachusetts never a reply even with my pictures on there lol

I’ve met a few people, mostly when traveling to larger cities

I have reached out and even responded to some who contact me, but connections never happened. Too many flakes on here. Some just enjoy sending endless emails with no real intention of meeting.

We intend to contact men this year as we travel in our RV.

If I've been active and had recent reviews and plan ahead, I've had some success but it's a challenge. Women get so many messages (including creepy ones) that they often stop responding - I've had several times when they've indicated interest and then didn't check their inbox until I'd left or there was no window to meet. It's just a reality of the site/community.

Once connected it's far easier to repeat (duh) but for 'regular guys' it can be a crapshoot. I don't take it personally - I just try to have good pictures and be transparent and fun in my communications.

I travel locally 30-40 mile range, but I have had some awesome exchanges with visitors traveling to the DFW Metropex. Most of the visitors are executives traveling for conferences, business meetings, company training, flight attendant layovers, but they usually have a short window of opportunity for exchanges, so scheduling is really the only challenging part with travelers. When our schedules line up, it's always a great exchange.

I can't even get a reply off of most people I'd be willing to travel as far as possible but that doesn't help lol

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Add a Primary Photo and I suspect your luck will improve

Have only been successful here once

Travel much of the year so always interested. Covid is a huge limitation.

I just recently joined. It sounds interesting but I've not tried as of yet. But open to the possibilities.

Found a longer lead time s required, as activity for locals in areas can be stagnant and not checking for. Connections often; therefore makin travel connects harder. Also see that places I travel; massagers are only looking for locals only.

I’ve been contacted by several guys traveling in my area. Their method is to contact everyone and choose one after a lot of back and forths.. Great for them, a waste of time for all but the chosen one.

But I would prefer to go on a 30 to 40 mile radius

Pre-pandemic - Very limited - depends also on what country as some (like the US) has lots of possibilities whereas others (like Singapore or the UAE) do not. Had kinda given up and just try to source locally when there... That being said have not traveled Internationally for 2 years now for obvious reasons. Hopefully one day soon.

In my experience, most people are only interested in local massages, within 50 miles or less. They are wanting to find regular massages and are afraid of traveling male massagers. Also, as others have mentioned, nobody can plan ahead, and it's hard to find recent log ins. I have had 8 travel massages from this site in 5 years during about 12 weeks of travel.

Met lots of massage people on my travels!

I would love to try it

This whole site is disappointing, am I the only female as I get contacted by males who live hundreads of miles away. Nobody ever actually turns up once they realise it is only a massage

I haven't traveled much since the pandemic.

Some success with travel massages using other apps & sites. Hoping MassageExchange.com will improve my success rate.

i met some great people while traveling.

Never have found success while traveling, very few people who have recently logged in.

I don't travel much anymore.

I hav had some success in finding massage partners when traveling.

if i can find any

I find most guys say they want to exchange, but don’t follow though

I rarely have a long lead time to be able to set things up in advance. So success has been limited. But the times when I have connected make the effort worth it.

I had 4 while on different vacations, 3 were a success the other one thought it was a rub and tug. So far 75/25% good.

When I am going to be traveling I try to start looking around about 2 weeks before hand, Over the years I have managed to setup 7 different meets. Out of the 7, 4 turned into ghosts and 3 worked out to be very pleasant, and relaxing, encounters.

Haven’t traveled for several years, but was never successful when I did.

Have had some good massage exchange experiences when traveling, takes more planning and good communication, but has always been worth it.

Met up with a great guy in Utah this past summer a few times.

I normally havent had the spare time, but things can chage

I don't travel much as I'm dependant on a co-owner for transportation. I have a studio set up at home and receive exclusively.

It has happened. There has been a few passing through London. Some don't turn up or get better offers. Helpful hint on successful communication might help. Giving no notice and expect you to be free is not a recipe for success. Understanding travel times across London is helpful too.

I had one very successful swap in Paris.

Slim pickins at my travel destination