it also depends if we connect fairly easy and if it just feels right

Prefer to massage swap

By "meet prior" it would also mean to me open dialogue via other means - texting, call, e-mail, ME Communication, etc. I like to understand expectations, boundaries, concerns, and desires before going into the massage as it makes the experience much more enjoyable when you are both heading int eh same direction toward the same goal, whatever that may be... I've had a couple people that after some dialogue I'm glad we never met in person, as it would have been very awkward based on the person that I discovered and unveiled during our pre-meet discussions.

For it’s more than just physical connection. Human connection is also emotional and spiritual even if it’s a little bit.

i've made two new acquaintances on here and hoping to have my first exchange soon.

I have no issue meeting before hand and have done so, however most long-term members on this site seem to be comfortable with communicating beforehand and not meeting in person.

Yes, I think it's important to know each other beforehand, although I haven't done to or received a massage from strangers, so this is an educated guess.

Communication is key. A lot can be discovered about each other through messages on the site before meeting for the massage. Boundaries can be adjusted as needed based on in person connection if any and or comfort level.

Communication is key. If the other person is more comfortable with a casual meet-up first, I am open to it. If they prefer to go straight to the session, I am perfectly comfortable with that as well.

When I go to a massage parlor time is not spent getting acquainted. It depends on the situation.

It depends on the person. I like to make the ladies feel comfortable and secure, while most men just like to get down to massaging. But I am happy either way.

I always do lots of messaging first, to get to know the other person, and also check their pics.......then once we meet, it is straight to the massage !

This question is about MEETING before massage meeting. NO. I will communicate via the site BEFORE. Get to know if person is really going to meet up & massage. Then Day of massage session, we have a level of comfort from our previous short conversations.

Usually some conversation to relax both parties and for us to get comfortable before the massage, even if it’s a short conversation.

Perfect

Whatever makes the other person feel comfortable.

I prefer to have an understanding on the pressure level and what areas are off limits

Time also plays a factor

Open to all conditions

I'm fine with whatever makes her more comfortable.

IT depends on the comfort level of the woman. Some need to be secure before they meet someone. However, if you go to a Normal Massage place, you don't know the person there...so what is the difference.

I personally am fine with going either way. If time is short we can get to know each other during the massage. It adds some excitement to the session. I usually only have time to either give or receive.

Most important is phone calls to see if we get on and set preference and boundaries.

It is a constantly changing variable, and I am adaptable. The initial contact is when we will decide how we choose to proceed. No stress, no worries. Time is not a huge concern of mine, most of the time.

I guess whatever someone is comfortable with.

It depends really on the before conversation as you I think you should have over the phone or through texting messages of course and then discussing styles and treatments and certain areas that you want done and what you don't want done if there was oil creams the setup the room arrangement music lighting draw what dressing or drapery

I wouldn't be opposed to it. It would be a way to get know someone before the massage.

Not everyone has time but I prefer it!

Absolutely, because a massage is such a personal activity, it’s really important to know a little bit about your partner -personality is everything!

getting to know one another is always a good idea

Virtual meetings can be short but can make both parties more comfortable with an exchange

Best way to get comfortablr with someone first

We both are looking for either a therapeutic or sensual massage, and if either is done with care and attentiveness we are already talking about a significant block of time if we are exchanging a massage.

It depends entirely on the social competence meaning Grace and style of the person initiating and the person likewise corresponding

meet public place and discuss and understand the person. then very comfortable moment

If we vibe, we can then get a room.

Willing to meet beforehand but not essential, more than happy to meet and strip off

My thoughts are it's nice to get acquainted before hand, it makes for much more enjoyable Massage >>>

Meeting for a Coffee or similar in a public place allows people to form an idea about a person that you are then going to invite into your home

That way you can gauge and understand the needs to precision tailor your massage

It depends on my massage partner. I'm comfortable either way. I never meet the masseuse at the spa ahead of time, so very comfortable being nude in front of strangers.

We could meet for coffee

Communication before the first meet is critical so everyone has a shared understanding of what will occur and an awareness of each others boundaries!

We try to look for compatible people before we agree on a meet and always begin by talking, getting to know each other, and agreeing the parameters of our massage. We see no need to meet first, after all this is for a massage a massage exchange, not seeking a life partner.

Will meet if the partner wants, but prefer to allocate more time to the sessions.

I think just a chat before the session starts in ok but usually time is at a premium,so let's get naked and start the fun.

Sometimes a phone call or two is enough ahead of time. This might just be to know a little more about each other, or it xan be to discuss wishes, expectations and boundaries.
It is makes us start more at ease with each other when we are going to be naked together for an opposite gender massage.

It is important to know what both parties want and offer, but that can be adequately sorted out via online communication, so I don't require an actual physical meeting prior to a massage.