MassageExchange.com Poll

Photo Pass...

If someone sends you a message asking for a photo pass, but they do not provide a photo pass for you, or they don’t even have a photo posted on their site - what do you do?
Reply back with a photo pass
20%
1%
20%
Ask them to send you a photo pass first
28%
1%
29%
Ask them to add a photo first
27%
2%
29%
Ignore the request
20%
1%
22%
⇑ select 1 or more
969 Votes:
 
Member Comments
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
this is an exchange not a photo gallery
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
I might send a pass to somebody wit only profile photo, after we’ve exchanged mail and seem on the path to a possible exchange. But if the other person has no photo at all, no way. That’s a preview of how anything you set up will go.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
It’s only fair.
♦ Ignore the request
I don't need to send my private (non nude) photos to any random person just because they're asking for access to them.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Just for felling safty
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I always reply to a picture request of their original message/request also has the photo pass attached. Otherwise, I assume they are really not serious.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
I sometimes block them.
♦ Ignore the request
Seems pointless. I'm always wary of picture collectors.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
Depends on their profile and how its written. Of course that has never happened haha
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
Seems that this happens a lot from people 1000s of miles from the requested person that will never be a meet up for massage
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I don’t have any hidden pics, what is the point? I want guys to see me and if they like what they see, terrific!! If they do not, oh well...
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
Pic for pic
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I send a photo pass as Im a bit easy especially with guys from ages 55 to 90. I get turned on that there turned on by me
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
I figure if you are going to ask for a photo pass you should send your pass with the request. If they have no pictures and a completed profile I will ask that they post a picture first. If they have a minimal profile and no pictures I usually just ignore the request.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
Let’s talk
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Trust. Truthful. Saves time.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
It's fair to show their pic and /or send a photo pass first otherwise it may probably not for a genuine massage exchange request
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I do not send photo for security reasons unless i talk with the person threw text email and then i will send
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I’m an exhibitionist in addition to having a passion for touch. *shrug*
♦ Ignore the request
I'm not here to show my physical attributes, but to share my talent.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I'm not really fussed to be honest....doesn't really matter what someone may look like...everyone is beautiful in there own way!
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ignore the request
I don't have any private photos, but I don't see much point in dealing with anyone who's unwilling to share a photo first. I understand the need to protect one's privacy, especially in a small town, but at least send me a photo pass before proposing an exchange.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I don't really agree with any of these options. Some of us are private and are only looking for an idea of the body size of a member. There are many pictures of actually attractive people already on the internet. I find it absurd people are looking here to collect pictures.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
They initiated the exchange. They should provide a picture so you can decide how to proceed:
Share photo pass, talk, ignore, other.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Please send a photo if you do not have one
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
An issue of basic decency. Hint hint
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I'm not too shy; so if somebody wants to see, I'm not generally inclined to decline.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I am easy with anything
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ignore the request
beauty to me is in the heart and its a massage not lovers so dont matter my 1st time if anyone wants practice on me
♦ Ignore the request
Probably ignore it, depending on the person and the situation. More likely to ignore if the person clicked sensual massage only. If we were talking about an exchange then ok.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I expect my privacy to be respected, just as I respect the privacy of others. Since the only body parts that is essential are soft hands, I can deal with no photos. Likewise, I understand that NO ONE is going to contact me because of how I look! :)
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Ask them for a photo, I like to know who I'm talking with.
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♦ Reply back with a photo pass
don't mind sending photo
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
What is a photo pass?
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Openness and transparency in first contacts is vital for further good communication, if they’re not happy to send a photo pass or add a photo, then I would Ignore.
♦ Ignore the request
We can communicate to feel comfortable about the get together
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
even exchange
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
If they don't have one, I gently point out the unfairness of them requesting something of me that they aren't willing to provide themselves. Probably a waste of time, but no one ever puts one up and then contacts me later.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
Common courtesy. If one wants a photo, they can should send a photo along with the request. It is a massage. Appearance is no indication of quality of one's handiwork.
♦ Ignore the request
Most of the time those that are requesting photos are hoping to see naked photos of you and not willing up front to share... so why put the energy into it.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
i would send them a photo if I am interested in massage exchange
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I am willing share my photo if you share yours first. Thanks.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
Reply back, but also ask whether they would share, and if not, why not?
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I do can share my photos.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ignore the request
I typically will send a reply simply stating that I don't send photo passes to those with whom I have had no prior contact, or am unlikely to ever exchange massages (due to distant locations, etc).
I have received numerous notes of understanding and thanks for my reply.
♦ Ignore the request
I don't particularly see the need for a photo. Try exchanging a few messages, then, if you decide to meet for a swap see how you both get on. If it wasn't good, don't do it again...
♦ Ignore the request
Why is it that those who are asking for a photo pass never have any photos and are many miles away?
This site needs a serious update,
So out dated!
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I have several representative photos posted myself. I find it a little strange and unnecessarily coy to be on this site with no photo at all. I like to be able to tell that people are not so heavy or so overly developed that I wont be able to provide a good massage.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I will ask them for photos, but if there is no response, ignoring them will be the best choice
♦ Ignore the request
Don’t waste time with those guys! I ignore every one of those requests.
♦ Ignore the request
Why is it that those who are asking for a photo pass never have any photos or have pictures from years ago?
Some profiles needs a serious update, or maybe verified that the info is upto date!
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
its a give and take pleasure so lets enjoy each other
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I think it's not nice to simply request a photo pass without even saying hi and top of that they dont have any photo of themselves on the profile I will ask them to add a photo of theirs first before requesting mine!
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ignore the request
I do't have public photo for professional discretion. But am very happy to share with those I am likely to exchange with. That means if someone is too far away, I will not likely to share. If they are not willing to share, it is a red flag. There are photo collectors out there.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ignore the request
Depends on whether I am interested enough in their profile to continue the conversation.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I appreciate people may not want a photo for general display this is a massage site not a dating site. But if I am going to communicate or exchange then of course I will provide a photo pass. I don’t understand when people send a message to someone with no photo but their profile says they prefer a photo as you can’t respond anyway. What is the point?
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
The women say that if you ask for a photo you are looking for more than a massage.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Something as generic as a drivers license type photo is better than no photo and should not be too much to ask.  If you want or need a little cover, use a scarf.  One layer or more. A scarf can add to the allure of the experience.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I think it's okay if it is a match, then it will move forward naturally
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
Reply with a photo pass because I'm hopeful that the request wasn't idle.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
its 2019, every phone has a camera, if its too risky for you to have a photo you can share you prob shouldnt bee looking online
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
Does not have to be professional photo.
♦ Ignore the request
I am decent looking and 5'11, 200. Not heavy. Average. I just don't feel comfortable sending photos. Prefer meeting in a place the other considers safe. Depends on the conversation.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
Ask them to send a message of introduction and why they want to exchange with me!
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ignore the request
Seems strange to ask someone for their pictures but not allow access to yours!
♦ Ignore the request
They collect pictures but more than likely fakes. Male or females faking themselves for info.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
lets be honest i have no problem  sending my photo  to a lady. and i can see the women's preference not have a photo up. women are buetiful. and men have 2 brains that we must control for women to feel safe
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
If they think it is not wise to post a photo , why would they expect photo pass from others.?
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I have nothing to hide
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I send them a photo pass and request photo(s) from them.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Should have an alternative that says, 'No pictures.' Private pictures are much more telling.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I am decent looking and 5'5", 140 pound weight, Not heavy. Average or fit. I just don't feel comfortable sending photos. Prefer meeting in a place the other considers safe. Depends on the conversation. I will be happy to send photo once we connect.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I am happy to share photos of any type, I just prefer not to have one posted for the general public
♦ Ignore the request
Since my wife and I are a couple, we receive many messages from single men. She doesn't feel comfortable sending photos. At the same time, we are much more likely to respond to a single male who provides a pic.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
If your serious about meeting then they are going to see you anyway so why wouldn't you send your pictures ?
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I would send a photo
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
They're asking for a favor, they should show good faith first by showing their picture(s).
♦ Ignore the request
Great information to know
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
It is rude and inconsiderate of someone to ask for photo pass if they are not willing to provide one. Very annoying...
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
What do expect from a sensual message
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
Carl 91st shell division veteran brethren.. I cannot upload a photo on this scrappy outdated phone I'm sorry
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I prefer not to have a photo to the general public
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Its important to see a photo if your serious
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
Here’s an idea. If you want to exchange with people on the site, have them in your home, and allow them into your personal physical space, post a face pic in the first place. Let us see how you look and be honest about your age. We all like different things and that is ok. If you have something to hide, don’t sigh up for a memebership because the games are quite elementary.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
If serious about exchange then should post a picture, photo pass if desired, you need approval to see photo pass. I like to see picture of who and the skin health, physical I may massage. Ciao. : )
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
I would send a photo
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
We can talk and have an agreement.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
i send, or open my pictures when I contact them ...I think it’s the right thing to do
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I don't have any photos other then my profile sorry Im new at this if you have any hints of what kind of photos work please send me some ideas...I love being touched all over.
♦ Ignore the request
In my experience photos are misleading and a personal security risk. I never use or ask for a photo but I do ask to meet at a neutral place and exchange real ID such as driving licence. That way both know and have real assuarnce the person is genuine ... better be safe not sorry and be more at ease, happy and sure
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Always ask for photo. There is no valid excuse for not having one, even in private. What are they trying to hide?
I have better exchanges with open people.
♦ Ask them to send you a photo pass first
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I prefer not to exchange photos but to meet in person and to view credentials. There is a lot that can go wrong on social media with individuals that may have insincere motives or very bad intentions, and having your photo in the wrong person's hands is like playing with dynamite. For my own personal safety and security, I would rather meet in person to discuss the terms of a massage exchange and avoid exchanging photos altogether on this site.  It also adds a sense of mystery and intrigue.  It might mean that I get less hits or potential partners, but it will ensure I connect with the right people. As the saying goes, "Caution is the better part of valour."
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
U get my pic
Cuz I want your pic
♦ Ignore the request
Most if not all are just collecting nude photos, for what purposes I cringe to think. Can’t think of a reason to interact with such people.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
♦ Ignore the request
if they don't follow instruction rule. tell them bye
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
Willing to share photo's with people that have a photo. But will no send photo with out one back.
♦ Reply back with a photo pass
I'd send mine and at the same time ask for theres in return
♦ Ignore the request
I don't share any personal photos of any sort on any internet site. Period.
♦ Ask them to add a photo first
I think it would be impolite and unrealistic to seek access to another's photo if the person asking did not have a photo to exchange.
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