Visit Profile Preferences (top menu) to alter your preferences. Green items control mail you receive. Here's a summary:
|Reduce / Stop Notifications||In
Notifications, set each item to desired frequency.
Setting Viewed and Favorites to either Weekly Digest Only or Never will likely reduce your e-mail notifications by 90%.
|Block greeting cards||In Emails and Greetings, set Greetings to Block to only receive e-mails|
|Block photo-less messages||In Emails and Greetings, set Photo-less to Block and only those with a Primary Photo may contact you|
|Block non-local members||In Privacy, set Locale to Local-Only and only those within 100 miles of your location will see you in their search|
|Stealth Mode||Want to be invisible, receive zero e-mails, and only receive replies from people you contact? We call that Private mode. In the Preferences section, set Visibility to Private. Once again, in Private mode, don't expect any e-mails unless you reach out.|
Visit Profile Edit Profile (top menu) and check these items ...
|Directories||Have you selected the directories that you're interested in? Selecting Sensual/Tantra/Erotic means you should expect erotic/sexual e-mails. If you don't want these, select Therapeutic; do not select Sensual/Tantra/Erotic.|
|Desired Gender||Select one gender only or both as you wish.|
|Desired Partners||You may prefer to set to Students and Therapists only, eliminating Enthusiasts, to connect with our more professional members. (Granted the number of contacts may be lower.)|