MassageExchange.com Poll

Expectations

Do you like to map out the details of the massage beforehand, or simply let it unfold organically?
Plan it together carefully.
9%
16
15%
2
9%
18
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
59%
106
62%
8
59%
114
Just go with the flow!
32%
58
23%
3
32%
61
Votes: 180 Male 13 Female 193 Total
Member Comments ?
Reallyniceukguysussex
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
I love using the feedback from a guy (from a simple moan of pleasure to a downright YES) to ensure what is given delivers the best possible experience.
livenature
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
mostly discuss very well. understand explain each and everything. comfortable moment mind and body relax quickly. some people request do basic massage with dress.
Fitguy123
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
I like setting a few simple boundaries first, then letting the rest evolve organically. Being mostly on the receiving side, I enjoy surrendering to the experience and allowing the connection and chemistry to guide where it goes.
unico
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
It depends on the vibe I'm getting from the other person. If they seem suspect then I'll state my boundaries clearly. For example don't take my hand and push it into your crotch, or don't surreptitiously take your clothes off and launch into a body slide. Amazing how much some people assume without asking. Apart from that I like to let the giver use their intuition and palpation to guide the massage. It's best when you can trust them enough to let go.
Siggy666
Just go with the flow!
It’s good to allow a comfortable environment and be open and honest about youre expectations
Healingtouch4U
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
I have very few boundaries however I like to know my partner's boundaries/limits. Once those are set then the rest can unfold organically and let our bodies dictate the direction.
MassageRelaxEnjoy
Just go with the flow!
Ideally only clarify the rough outline (e.g. I don't do feet...) to avoid disappointment or go completely with the flow, I am relaxed about either, as there is mostly enough overlap if both parties are a bit flexible... 

Don't over-plan. Massage exchange is about connection, chemistry and sometimes desire and these develop as the massage unfolds...

Listen especially carefully when massaging ladies, the smallest sound and purr can be the best guide...
smoothy2015
Plan it together carefully.
The planning time is the best opportunity to check if we can communicate well with the other person, because good communication is essential for a good massage !
massageandrew
Only very basic parameters agreed beforehand, then let it unfold
I normally prefer to clarify expected outcomes or hard boundaries in advance and then once we meet decide if we will go with the flow within those boundaries
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